"Better a fallen rocket than never a burst of light."
~ Tom Stoppard, The Invention of Love

Saturday, May 16, 2015

Relationship Spotlight: Simon & Sydney Roberts (The Crazy Ones)

I was so happy to discover that The Crazy Ones is on Netflix now; I hadn’t seen any episodes of this wonderfully screwy workplace sitcom since they originally aired, and it’s been great to rewatch.  It’s the type of show where you can really put the characters in any formation and get gold, but there’s something special about Simon and Sydney, the best father/daughter advertising team out there.

At first glance, you might look at these two and see an odd couple dynamic.  It’s a reasonable enough deduction.  He’s a flamboyant creativity bomb, an endlessly-riffing, irrepressible free spirit.  She’s an orderly, tightly-wound by-the-book type who’s frequently tasked with reigning in her own dad.  It’s easy to see her as a killjoy Cerberus guarding the gates of unbridled imagination, or him as the ADHD toddler wreaking havoc on her meeting agendas. 

And sure, they clash and squabble, and he literally sets fire to her bummer of a “creativity binder,” but that’s really not what Simon and Sydney are about.  They’re both so different, but they both love that about each other.  Sydney is forever amazed by Simon’s flashes of inspiration and remarkable knack for spinning incredible ideas out of nothing at the last possible minute.  She believes in his talent even when he doubts it, and more than anything, her dream is to do what he does.  More than once in the series, Sydney steps out of her carefully-measured comfort zone and tries to “pull a Simon.”  Sometimes, these gambles are impressive victories, while others explode on the launch pad, but her father’s example is the best impetus for her to take risks.

Meanwhile, Simon’s proud-papa moments are numerous.  He’s forever encouraging Sydney, nurturing her imagination, and pushing her because he knows she can do it.  He’s usually the first one to complain when she plays bad cop, but in truth, he appreciates her levelheadedness.  In the pilot, he shares his philosophy of advertising – “Leap and the net will appear” – and he ultimately confides to Sydney that she’s his net.  If he has a dream, it’s to be who she sees when she looks at him, and he’s always striving to live up to her faith in him.

For a father/daughter relationship, it’s pretty atypical.  Simon’s runaway attention span and tendency to go all in at the drop of a hat aren’t the only reasons Sydney often feels like the more responsible one.  Although he’s living straight now, Simon is a recovering addict who spent much of Sydney’s childhood drunk or high (Sydney has one of the most harrowing “learning to drive” stories around.)  She grew up quickly and learned to be “the adult” in the relationship, and their present dynamic still reflects those early lessons.  As such, she frequently looks out for Simon, protecting and bolstering him.  She may have a kneejerk opposition to some of his flights of fancy, but when she asks why they’re important to him, she genuinely wants to know and usually winds up supporting them.  But as I said, the Simon we meet has it far more together than the one Sydney grew up with, so she’s never the only protective one.  Simon forever wants the best for her professionally, personally, and emotionally.  He coaches her on the business, his eagerness for her to have a happy love life sometimes result in well-meaning but problematic meddling, and when her tornado of a mother blows into town, he tries his hardest to shield her from the debris.  In every way, they’re one another’s biggest champion; it’s hard to ask for more than that.

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