Obviously,
the only way this show has been able to exist since 1963 is that the Doctor and
his companions change periodically. The
Doctor regenerates, so he’s covered, but the companions have to leave. New Who’s
S.O.P. for companion exits is usually a tragic forced separation, and there
have been a few deaths over the years; however, that still leaves plenty who’ve
chosen to go of their own volition.
While some can’t hack it anymore and others decide to stay and help a
rescued world rebuild, another big reason to jump ship is that they’ve fallen
in love.
As far
back as One’s era, companions have stayed behind somewhere because they’ve
found that special someone. Depending on
how it’s handled, this can feel organic or tacked on, and at least once the
companion’s preferred beau is presented as a sort of human substitute for the
Doctor. Though both are always sad to
part, the companion says goodbye hand-in-hand with a new love, while the Doctor
departs with a hole where they used to be.
Sure, sometimes there’s still another companion or two in the TARDIS,
he’ll meet someone new before long, and once a companion has moved on, he
rarely stops to look back. That doesn’t
change the pain of each parting.
In the
final Amy/Rory episodes of series 7, when the Doctor feels them drifting away,
I was struck by how this recurring situation parallels a common asexual worry: being discarded by a friend in favor of a
romantic partner (anyone single might recognize this, but it feels particularly
true to me as an ace.) Honestly, the way
that era plays up that false “Doctor vs. Rory” bid for Amy’s affections follows
the same theme. I think it’s clear that
the Doctor has never felt that way
about Amy, and I don’t think she feels that way about the Doctor, but the
show’s insistence on the comparison is about more than Rory’s insecurities. Almost from the start, it’s telling us Amy
can’t have Rory for a lover and the
Doctor for a best friend. Ultimately,
one has to win out, and though she’s sad to be pulling away from the Doctor,
she sees life at home with Rory as real,
grown-up life. We see this tug-of-war in
series 8 as well. Clara can’t sustain
being a TARDIS traveler and Danny’s girlfriend at the same time – despite her
efforts, something’s got to give, and if her actions in “Dark Water” are any
indication, that something is the Doctor.
In this
way, settling down with a romantic partner is viewed as a positive step,
maturity-wise, that traveling with the Doctor isn’t. Life with him is life on pause, and while it’s
sad to say goodbye, there’s a sense that supplanting him is natural,
inevitable; they’ve grown out of him. This
gets to me because, though he’s lived so much longer, he never grows out of them.
They’re the ones who choose to leave because the relationship they have
with him isn’t. He means a lot to them,
of course, but he can’t win out over “the real thing.” And the thing is, I think they are enough for him. There have been other forays – Rose and
River, and you could argue Eleven-Clara a bit – but at no point does his
affection wane because he’s found something “truer” than what he has with
them. If the Doctor and Rory are both in
danger, Amy will save Rory first every time.
I don’t think the Doctor would choose so consistently between Amy/Rory
and River.
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