Another
of the fascinating relationships in Falsettos. This one is perhaps the most intriguing
because, while it’s definitely there, the show itself contains next to nothing
that features Whizzer and Trina actually interacting as characters. And yet, through Marvin, their lives have
become intrinsically linked, and even if we don’t often seem them overtly relating to one another, the
show demonstrates their ties in other ways (spoilers.)
At the
start of the show, Trina and Whizzer are in one another’s lives basically at
Marvin’s behest. While Marvin has
divorced Trina and gotten together with Whizzer, he isn’t interested in fully
letting Trina go, either, and he’s contrived his “tight-knit family” set-up
wherein he, his boyfriend, his ex-wife, and his son all coexist and share meals
together. Unsurprisingly, this isn’t a
scenario either Trina or Whizzer is comfortable with; Trina makes numerous
mentions of her feelings about the unconventional situation, and although
Whizzer isn’t nearly as demonstrative about his inner feelings, he struggles
with Marvin’s need to go “off playing family charades.” However, both are to their own extent under
Marvin’s demanding thumb, and both uneasily go along with the arrangement until
it breaks down through other means.
Trina in
particular has reason to resent Whizzer.
After all, he’s the “other man” who broke up her marriage (never mind
the fact that, since Marvin is gay, it wouldn’t have worked out with him and
Trina anyway,) and after having had such an unsatisfying relationship with
Marvin herself, it aggravates her to think of Whizzer making Marvin happy, and
vice versa. But despite what she freely
admits are her best efforts, she can’t bring herself to take any of those
feelings out on Whizzer. Nearly every
time she discusses her thoughts about Whizzer, it’s clear that she’s upset about the situation, not at him.
“As far as enemies go, / Whizzer is not so bad,” she observes in one
song, later confessing that she wants to hate him but can’t, and when Whizzer
gets sick in Act II, she wrestles with how to react to it. Despite “trying not to care about this man
who Marvin loves,” she realizes that Whizzer “shared [her] life.”
Through
the forced relationship that Marvin engineers in Act I, yes, and through their
shared parental/step-parental love for Jason, yes, but more than that. Because of their mutual experience with
Marvin, Whizzer and Trina have both felt the brunt of the ways Marvin takes out
his issues and insecurities on those close to him. Marvin’s messed-up notions of gender roles
and need to maintain a traditional “provider husband”/“doting housewife” set-up
in his relationship with Whizzer means that Whizzer has to deal with the same
sort of crap that Trina did, expected to do the cooking, be pretty, and be
ready to give Marvin whatever he wants.
Similarly, both are well-versed in Marvin’s mind games, how he lashes
out at others in order to feel less insignificant.
Even
though, as I said, we almost never see Trina and Whizzer exchanging lyrics as
dialogue the way nearly every other character does, the show repeatedly
highlights these parallels in their experiences with Marvin. In “This Had Better Come to a Stop,” Trina
reprises the same “I was supposed to make the dinner” melody that Marvin
admonishes Whizzer with at the start of the song. In the same song, and again later in Act I,
Trina and Whizzer “team up” in a way against Marvin, both standing up for
themselves in unison. They don’t
precisely act as a united front – in both instances, they don’t stand together
but stand on opposite sides of Marvin – but their tactics/grievances are the
same. Whether it’s taunting Marvin with
the prospect of other men they prefer to him or reflecting on Marvin put them
through (“We had fights and games. / Marvin called us funny names”) and his
confounding nature (“And he’s sweet / And he’s mean,”) they sing together.
While the
other central relationships in this “triangle” – Marvin-Whizzer and
Trina-Marvin – have their share of frustrations for how dysfunctional they can
be, the Whizzer-Trina relationship can be frustrating for the potential that’s
clearly in it but not fully realized.
It’s such an interesting
dynamic, and I wish the show had a lot more of it. In a way, I think Trina and Whizzer could
find a great deal of comfort in commiserating with one another, if they’d allow
themselves to do so.
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