
This is the first “regular” episode of Pan y circo, the brunt of the season that was shot before the pandemic began. It was interesting to learn more about Mexico’s relationship with feminism and gender-based violence, and shoutout to Diego Luna for recognizing his (limited) role as the only man at the table.
Rather than opening with narration from Luna, we begin with footage from a massive women’s march in Mexico. In the U.S., the Women’s March has covered a wide variety of issues relating to gender equality, but this protest is more squarely focused on violence against women, for being women. Ten women in Mexico are murdered every day, and killing a woman on the basis of her gender has its own legal designation: femicide. One of the chants we hear in the footage is, “They took them alive! We want them back alive!”
The five guests (and the chef) are all women. Three are activists, two are attorneys, and one is a government official, the national commissioner for the Prevention and Eradication of Violence Against Women. They hand their phones over for the duration of the meal, sit down at the table together, and discuss gender violence in Mexico. “#NiUnaMás” means “not one more.”
All the women at the table have experienced misogyny and fought for women’s freedom in different ways, and each has their own perspective to bring to the discussion. They talk about where the misogyny that leads to gender violence begins, looking at cultural traditions and sexist media elements that view women as objects rather than people. They debate whether it’s enough to address the role of “institutions,” such as gender roles taught in the family, or whether the problem must be faced head-on with laws. They acknowledge that, as with most issues, poverty only exacerbates the problem. Different guests take the government official to task because they feel her department only pays lip service and isn’t doing enough to bring about meaningful change.
Since this is an episodic nonfiction talk show, I figured I’d structure this similarly to the way I used to do my News Satire Roundup posts and share some favorite quotes from the episode.
- One of the activists, also a sports analyst, talked about how much resistance there is in the culture for men to embrace feminism – “There is a total dismissal of those who want to recognize us as people with wills and differences and the right to be free from violence and the right to live.”
- One of the lawyers highlighted why femicide requires its own separate categorization – “What happens to women isn’t the same as what happens to men, in terms of the violence they are subjected to. The cause and consequence is discrimination due to the social constructs of what a woman should be, right? So society condones women being controlled.”
- Another activist, one whose own daughter was murdered, discussed the motivation for family members like her – “We prefer, like many other families, not to mourn them, but to say ‘no’ for them. Because they no longer have a voice.”
- The third activist was also a rapper, and between the second and third course, Luna asked her to perform a piece for them – She rapped in Spanish, and I’m sure the translation couldn’t capture her words entirely, but I loved the line, “You butcher my heart / And muzzle my trust.”
As I said, Luna recognized that, as the only man at the table, his voice was the least important. And so, he was a little more hands-off in his hosting duties. He brought up topics for the group to discuss at different points—I liked his list of both the large and small ways violence against women manifests in Mexican culture, “including the violence we let slide in the name of humor”—but he also just listened a lot, letting the guests follow where the discussion took them.
But even though he took a bit of a step back during the discussion, that didn’t make him less present as a host. He helped the chef with the meal prep beforehand, asking her about her perspective on the topic as well. (Side note: the chef joined the table and the discussion during dessert, which I thought was nice.) He was personable and disarming with the guests when they arrived, freely admitting, “I always need a drink before I start, because I’m really nervous right now.” And near the end of the meal, he proposed a moment of silence for the victims. Still an effective host, even if part of that entailed knowing when to take a backseat.



