
Woohoo, new Ncuti Gatwa project! Since he hasn’t been in too much yet and I covered all his readily-available pre-Who work prior to his debut as Fifteen, it’s exciting to see him pop up in something new, even when he doesn’t have a very big role. The main cast of this movie had caught my eye, but finding out that Gatwa was in it clinched my decision to see it in the theater.
Shakeups in their respective careers and positions within their marriage put a major strain on Theo and Ivy’s relationship. He takes a massive career hit right as her star is on the rise, and Theo doesn’t take nearly as well as he’d like to their initial plan to have Ivy temporarily become the breadwinner while he stays home with the kids. Varying feelings of resentment, inadequacy, and isolation begin to creep in—for both of them—and it’s hard to say if their marriage is hurtling towards divorce or if there’s anything worth saving.
I haven’t seen The War of the Roses from the ‘80s (or read the book it’s based on,) so I came into this film fairly fresh. It’s a dark comedy that gets pretty bitter and vicious at times. I’ve watched my share of divorce stories, ranging from Marriage Story to Everything Will Be Fine, but I wasn’t prepared for how utterly mean this movie is in places.
That can certainly make it hard to watch, but despite the nastiness, I still found the film rather compelling. For me, the most interesting part is that Theo and Ivy do still love each other. We see it when Ivy’s “ten things I like about you” exercise in therapy devolves into insults and they both burst out laughing at the end of her list. We see it when Ivy blinks back tears in the bathroom as she urges herself to apologize for something hurtful she drunkenly spouted off the night before. We see it when Theo becomes increasingly obsessed with the “dream house” he’s designing for them, needing every detail to be perfect so that it’s worthy of Ivy. Their problem is that they can’t show each other their most vulnerable parts. Ivy doesn’t apologize, not really, and Theo can’t convey that the house is a tribute to anything other than his own ego. It’s like the two of them are trapped on a spiteful merry-go-round, and although neither is having a good time, they don’t have the wherewithal or the courage to jump off.
Benedict Cumberbatch and Olivia Colman are very effective in the lead roles. That does mean they’re major factors in how uncomfortable the film can get. Both of them are absolutely brutal when the script calls for it, and there’s more than one “train crash” moment where it’s clear that Theo and/or Ivy is regretting their words even as they’re saying them, but they just can’t stop themselves. But it also means that they’re also responsible for the movie’s more rootable emotions, those moments where Ivy and Theo are able to connect and show one another that the love hasn’t died completely.
Andy Samberg does a nice, understated job as Theo and Ivy’s friend Barry, who’s deeply depressed and unhappy in his marriage but resolutely faking it ‘til he makes it. And I like Kate McKinnon, but she feels somewhat out of place as Barry’s wife Amy. Even though most of her line deliveries are pretty deadpan, her scenes still wind up feeling over-the-top in a way that doesn’t really mesh with the rest of the film. (Don’t get me wrong—there’s a lot in this movie that feels exaggerated, but the Amy parts feel exaggerated in a different way, one that just doesn’t fit as well.) Allison Janney also makes a brief but memorable appearance as a cutthroat divorce lawyer.
Ncuti Gatwa plays Jeffrey, the waiter at Ivy’s restaurant. I’m reminded a little of his role in Barbie, to be honest. That may seem like a weird comparison, because the two films are so wildly different. But in both, Gatwa plays a small supporting part where he mostly gives some nice reaction shots, does a questionable American accent, and wears Outfits (although Barbie obviously has The Roses beat on the Outfits! front.)
Jeffrey has slightly more to do than Gatwa’s Ken does. When the restaurant starts doing well, he compares himself to a stripper because he’s drowning in tips, and he gives Ivy relationship advice that he insists isn’t at all cheapened by the fact that most of his relationships are of the hookup variety. More often than not, though, he exists to set up other characters’ punchlines, mainly Ivy’s.
At any rate, kudos to Gatwa for getting to work with Colman (and, more briefly, Cumberbatch, Samberg, and McKinnon.) By and large, he acquits himself well, adding a bit of spark to a paper-thin character.
Accent Watch
Ostensibly American (which I know because there’s a scene where all the American characters discuss Theo and Ivy’s British accents,) but those ‘R’s sound decidedly Scottish to me!
Recommend?
In General – A tentative maybe. I’m still trying to decide what I think about it. The performances are very good, and if you’re prepared for the grimness, it might warrant a watch.
Ncuti Gatwa – Not necessarily. As with Barbie, he’s an added bonus if you’re otherwise interested in seeing the film, but his role is just too minor to be worth it purely for him.
Warnings
Language (including the C-word,) sexual content, violence, gross-out humor, drinking/smoking/drug use, and strong thematic elements (including references to suicide.)

