*Premise spoilers.*
I’ve seen this movie once before, maybe a few months before I decided to start Y tu Luna también. I’m writing the review now, after watching it for a second time, which is an inherently different viewing experience. I’ll try my best to still describe the experience of watching it cold.
Adrienne and Matteo’s relationship is strained, and Adrienne thinks they might be at the breaking point. They have a six-month-old baby and just bought a house, but there’s a distance between them and they keep fighting. Adrienne is convinced Matteo cheated on her, while he insists nothing happened. They’re in the middle of an argument in the car when they get into an accident. Now, Adrienne is sure that she’s dead. Matteo tries to convince her she’s still alive, taking her back through the story of their lives together to ground her.
There are elements of a drama, a thriller, and a romance, all blended together here. The film maintains the tension of its central mystery well. Is Adrienne dead—is this the afterlife, or purgatory? Is she in a coma and all this is just a dream? Have her injuries and the trauma from the accident left her in a state similar to Cotard’s Syndrome, where she’s up and walking around but still believes she’s dead? The story keeps you guessing. It’s disorienting at times, very intentionally so, and there are effectively creepy moments as she fears Death is coming for her. The movie does an excellent job of letting the viewer experience what’s happening in Adrienne’s head. Wherever she is, whether she’s alive or not, we lurch through her confusion right along with her.
For me, though, the love story is what takes an interesting premise and makes it into something beautiful. As Matteo reminds Adrienne of their lives together, we slide dizzyingly yet unobtrusively into memories. The edges of them are soft—sometimes pieces of one will slip through into another. A conversation in Matteo’s garage workshop becomes a trip they took to Mexico, with the tide rolling onto the concrete floor. They sit in bed together recalling the days after their daughter’s birth, and the doctors appear in the bedroom before the scene shifts to the hospital. Sometimes Adrienne and Matteo are fully within the memory, saying and doing what they did back then. But then they’ll slip halfway out of it, commenting on their recollections from their present-day viewpoint. They quibble over what happened when, and each provides extra context at points that the other didn’t know.
It’s fascinating, creative, and visually arresting, and simply put, it’s exquisite. Although the tone and sensibility are quite different, I’m reminded a little of Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, which is still one of my favorites. In both, we follow two people whose relationship has soured, rediscovering their love as they explore their ever-shifting memories within some sort of liminal space. I really, really love it.
Sienna Miller plays Adrienne. It’s a complex role that she navigates well, cycling through so many emotions as Adrienne moves from memory to memory. What’s happening to her is baffling and somewhat fantastical, but the story’s success relies on Miller’s ability to make it all feel genuine. Whatever’s going on, we feel it along with her, and that allows us to buy it even when we don’t understand it. The film also features appearances from Hey It’s That Girl! Beth Grant as Adrienne’s mom and Vanessa Bayer (formerly of SNL) as one of her friends.
Diego Luna, meanwhile, plays Matteo. Like Miller, it’s critical that none of the journey through the memories feels larger-than-life within Luna’s performance. Matteo is very ordinary and very flawed. He argues with Adrienne over things that don’t ultimately matter, he gets into shouting matches with her mom, and he pulls himself back from taking important steps because he’s scared. He’s not exactly equipped to deal with his partner’s belief that she died in a car accident, but he’s going to do his best to help her anyway.
So he tells Adrienne, “I’m gonna help you make sense of everything else. I’m gonna tell you our story, okay? That way, you can know that you’re okay. You can know you’re safe.” And as he urges her to follow him through their memories together, Matteo is so gentle and loving. Even within his own shortcomings and insecurities, it’s evident how much he wants to reassure her, to comfort and protect her.
Luna is an ideal actor to play this role, because while there’s a lot of specificity to Matteo, it’s very subtle. He’s not an immediately obvious “type” that can get pinned down at first glance, but the longer the film goes on, the more his choices and reactions feel undeniably like him. Luna’s light touch shades in the character, making him feel honest and real.
I love how Matteo is in the earliest recollections of their relationship, shyly flirty and fumbling. He’ll be vulnerable and intimate, then retreat with a joke. I really like this sweet, charming moment between them, when they’re remembering their first time having sex:
MATTEO: “You light a hundred candles, and you have no condom?”
ADRIENNE: “I thought you’d have one.”
MATTEO: (teasing) “What kind of feminist are you?”
I like his offhand, almost absentminded vulnerability at times. When Matteo fills Adrienne in on his insecurities about her boss, she asks, “Why didn’t you just tell me you were jealous?” Within the memory, Matteo is playing a video game, and he doesn’t look up from the screen as he shrugs, “I didn’t think I could do anything about it.” And I love the tender way he accepts that Adrienne’s death feels real to her, even as he tries to convince her otherwise. “You don’t get to be dead yet, okay?” he says, kissing her. Fondly, he adds, “Fuck, so impatient!” Whatever’s going on, he makes space for them to figure it out together.
Recommend?
In General – Yes. While it can definitely be confusing on first watch, I think it’s ultimately a rewarding film. Let the story carry you like a current, and follow where it takes you.
Diego Luna – Yes! This is a very unshowy performance, but it’s really grounded and lovely.
Warnings
Strong thematic elements (including suicidal ideation,) disturbing images, language, sexual content, and drinking/drug references.